12/18/2023 0 Comments One night stand game endingsAs a result, we get a lot of mixed messages about them. On the other hand, you have movies and TV shows and books that celebrate them as the ultimate goal, especially for young men. On the one hand, you have this huge cultural understanding of them as wrong and immoral and slutty. I think it's just a thought that I will probably never follow through on in reality.I think the one-night stand might be the most misunderstood type of sex. I doubt I have time for this but I will have more time mid month and maybe I'll see what he's up to then. It sounds like a line and no, I won't be saying this to him, but I've never done anything like this before. We text here and there, mostly him texting me and I figure I could text him and have him meet me for a drink and let him lead from there. But I tend to be a serious person and I think I might feel disrespected. But I am afraid of developing feelings because who knows what can happen. He is so immature so that is why I was thinking he may be a good choice, I couldn't take him seriously. I think the reasons why they work for her is she is in complete control, and only see's them when she feels the need. There may be others but those are the only ones that I am aware of. The other guy, I’ve never met, but he's supposed to be a Thug and would not fit in in her 'Normal' Social environment'. Ones a Professional guy that I see her with at dress up functions, He's good looking and really into her and our common group of friends all say the same thing "Why don't you pull that one in?". ![]() ![]() The woman I know that has the best success with FWB situations has at least 2 old boyfriends or friends that she uses for different occasions. I met someone a few months ago who was attractive and would fit the bill for a FWB, but she was really Political compared to my being Neutral wrt politics, plus she would check out women and men when we were out with our common groups of friends. Never had a FWB either but I think this is a more viable option for people who are attracted to each other but realize they are not long term compatible and don't have any immediate prospects. I would be worried about catching something, besides, it takes a few times to get really comfortable with someone anyway. Not a woman, but ONS are not my thing unless it was under extraordinary circumstances. Some people look at sex differently though. I'm a guy and even though I have had them, even if I don't have feelings as in want to date them, when things break off I still feel bad for them as the girls usually do start to develop feelings as well. I think it's hard for two people to be completely friends with benefits with no feelings. I tried to take it to show people how funny it was but she wouldn't let me. ![]() One girl came at me with a list of rules one time and it was really awkward. Any FWB I've had it's seemed like more of an "unspoken agreement" type of thing. Seems like it could be an awkward convo, and if you just come onto him, he may start to want more. I'm unsure how you would talk to him about it. Either way, I don't think it would hurt to give it a shot. I do think he thinks I'm too old for him too. (one night stand or fwb.) I met someone attractive but personality wise I don't think I'd fall for him. I am a sex only with commitment type of woman but I think I could try something like this.
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